I agree that it’s problematic that the Zulus give blackface passes to whites who are rolling with them. I think someone wrote about it on Medium as the white girlfriend. The only answer I have for that is for the whites to step aside and decline the invite. Just in case you want to run for governor one day.

I think of it like those black people who give their white friends an n-word pass. That n-word pass doesn’t carry over beyond your group of friends.